Oh, hi friends! How good are you at asking for what you want? I’m, uh, not great at it. Or, wait, let’s reframe: It’s something I could improve. Ha. There. That’s better. I will happily eat the wrong entree given to me at a restaurant or defer to others to make plans. I once waited at Shake Shack for 45 minutes before finally asking where my mushroom burger was (they had lost my order). I will meet anyone who asks me to chat over coffee but rarely (as in, never) will ask other people to do the same. (I love meeting people over coffee, by the way—but I need to also seek people out myself.)
Asking for what you want
Asking for what you want
Asking for what you want
Oh, hi friends! How good are you at asking for what you want? I’m, uh, not great at it. Or, wait, let’s reframe: It’s something I could improve. Ha. There. That’s better. I will happily eat the wrong entree given to me at a restaurant or defer to others to make plans. I once waited at Shake Shack for 45 minutes before finally asking where my mushroom burger was (they had lost my order). I will meet anyone who asks me to chat over coffee but rarely (as in, never) will ask other people to do the same. (I love meeting people over coffee, by the way—but I need to also seek people out myself.)