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Jenna Britton's avatar

I'm so sorry for your loss, Kara. Thank you for sharing Blakeney with us. Thinking of you and all who loved her ❤️

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Made me smile to see your name here, Jenna. Thanks so much for your presence and care.

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Liz Callaway's avatar

I’m so, so sorry for your loss, Kara.

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Thank you so much, Liz.

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Meg Oolders's avatar

This was beautiful, Kara. I am sorry for your loss. Blake was lucky to have a friend as generous and appreciative as you. You honor her memory by sharing the best of her with us.

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

This is incredibly meaningful to me...thank you.

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Chrissy Hennessey's avatar

Oh, what a terrible loss. Thinking of you and everyone who knew and loved your friend.

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Appreciate that — and you — so much, Chrissy.

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Margaret Ann's avatar

Dear Kara,

May your friend Blakeney rest in peace.

Margaret

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Thank you for being here, Margaret.

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Sara Lieberman's avatar

Such a beautiful tribute. I didn't know her, but your writing made it as if I did. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love and light.

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Thank you, friend. Writing this helped, too — I'm sure you understand that. The power of putting it down in words.

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Jill Gallagher's avatar

I'm so sorry, Kara. This is a lovely tribute to your friend. She sounds wonderful.

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Thank you so much, Jill.

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Em's avatar

Oh, I am so, so sorry. What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for introducing me to her, she sounds absolutely wonderful xo

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Thank you so much for taking a moment to read about her, Em.

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Diane Sunde's avatar

Kara, I'm so sorry for your loss. I wanted to include this excerpt from a book I'm reading. I hope you'll take a view from a greater distance: “But I remembered what he told me when I had my miscarriage. He told me that little baby had used the seventy days of its life to bring happiness into my life. He said that if I couldn’t find a way out of my unhappiness, then that would have been the result of the baby’s seventy days. But if I could find a way to be happy again, that is what the baby’s life would have brought me. through that choice, I could allow its life to have meaning. I could create a reason for why my child was granted life. He told me that was why I had to try to be happy. He said that no one would have wished that more than my child.” “Tales from the Café” by Toshikazu Kawaguchi

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

This is so beautiful, Diane. Thank you. And I hadn't heard of this series — looks right up my alley, I'll be sure to read them soon.

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Aransas Savas's avatar

What a perfect description of her unique magic. Thank you for writing this. Crying again and sending you so much love.

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Kara Cutruzzula's avatar

Love that we have so many great memories together. All those early mornings!

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