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Sep 15, 2023Liked by Kara Cutruzzula

This was lovely to read this morning, Kara. I want to let you know that I did get almost all of what I wanted to do done this week. Not because I was supposed to do the things but because I wanted to follow through and make progress.

I think when we use the word 'should' we are talking to ourselves as a parent. I advise my clients to avoid that as much as possible. I like to think in terms of what small things am I (or you) able to do to move whatever it is I (or you) want to do forward.

Also, I'm a HUGE Linda Samuels fan. She and I participate in a blogging group on Mondays along with my pal, Julie Bestry. Linda always presents a unique way of distilling her thoughts so they are actionable.

I hope you have a lovely weekend. I truly enjoy reading the words (and thoughts) you pop into my email box on a regular basis.

Thank you!

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So happy to hear this was such a week of forward momentum for you, Diane!

I'm using your "should" thoughts as a reframe from my weekend, was just feeling pulled in a few too many directions...thank you for that.

Also...you, Linda, and Julie?! What a dream trio!!! Who we surround ourselves with is truly everything. Thanks for being here.

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Sep 17, 2023Liked by Kara Cutruzzula

I'm not a big fan of "supposed to" dos. I prefer "get to do." And this past week, I got to do a lot. Did I complete everything? Let's just say I made a good dent despite some mongo challenges.

I was thinking of you this week, and how exciting the launch of your new "Do It (or Don't) journal must be. I'm so happy you're feeling the love and celebration. As you know, I bought a copy and have been slowly savoring your wonderful messages and prompts. In the first few pages, I highlighted (in my yellow pen) some gems, including these:

• "The art of creating boundaries is found in being decisive. It's yes or no, not maybe."

• "Create the proper space to flourish."

• "Our time is limited. Do you want to spend yours in a clear and intentional way?"

Thank you for including my article as one of your "made life better this week" things. I feel honored and so grateful to know you.

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A belated thank you for this sweet note, Linda! And thanks, too, for pulling out these highlights -- it's so helpful for me to know what is resonating with readers.

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Sep 17, 2023Liked by Kara Cutruzzula

Such a generous list of shares here, thank you - much to explore! I too think voice typing is magic and I always forget about it. I'm trying to integrate it into my day job so that it becomes more routine for me. I do find it better for capturing ideas, thoughts and ramblings though. It might still be a limiting narrative for me but I just don't think I'm as articulate when I speak. Hmmm... Anyway, I made time today to catch up on a 'higher love' class with Jocelyn K. Glei. A talk followed by a meditation on casting spells of worthiness with our internal dialogue. It was bliss and I followed it with a long soak in the bath - a gentle close to the week indeed!

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Oh I love Jocelyn's work! So glad to hear you had that wind-down. I hope this week (and weekend) are equally peaceful!

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Thank you Kara. Yes, her work always enriches my life!

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Sep 16, 2023Liked by Kara Cutruzzula

How random is it that we both did the same YWA session this week?!

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Out of all the ones to choose?! Btw this morning I did the "20 Min Yoga for Hips" and it was REALLY good, if you've never tried that one!

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I've been hooked on Yoga with Adriene for years. Have you tried "Yoga for Writers"? One of my favorites.

https://youtu.be/bQWwWaWXPS0?si=q--H26mQbhkKVFlJ

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I did this one last week!! Loved it!! How does she know exactly what we need?? Benji is also my fave.

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Sep 15, 2023Liked by Kara Cutruzzula

Hi- thank you for the Google Doc tip, you made my life better today!

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I am so happy to know that is useful for you, Kim!

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